Well H just called after a meeting, just says "what did I expect people to say" and then went on to accuse me of making him do this because I really don't want him.
That led to a argument about trust and he has the nerve to tell me that he still has trust issues with me because I asked him to leave when he was drinking and his former w didn't do that. H clearly doesn't see that what I did helped him not hurt him and what exw did was hurting him by enabling his drinking. I put my foot down. I am so hurt and angry right now that I am fighting the urge to quit. All I ever wanted to do was be happy with my husband and enjoy living out our later years together. Instead all I have had is broken promises, heartbreak, separations, financial issues, accusations and blame, fights over nothing, and humiliation in front of my friends and co workers and kids.
