No, *you* wait a second. When you start doing things you claim you want to do then maybe more people will be apt to help you out. I am too damn tired of hearing about your W.
Divorce busting is to make the fundamental changes YOU need to make as a person to grow and flourish and be okay no matter what the outcome of your M is. Check the stats - very few marriages come back together once a spouse walks away. The point of DB is to be okay on your own and choose to be happy and BETTER.
You have decided you will only survive if your W is around and you are only doing things so your W will come back. That is not DB'ing. You have not changed a bit and the only changes you have made are for your W (who doesnt care right now).
When you start making this about YOU then things will change. I am over hearing about your W. Its boring. You still cant go 24 hours w/o saying a darn word about her.
And once again you jumped at any tiny crumb she threw your way and agreed at once to the seafood boil. You should have said... "gee W, that sounds great but I have plans, maybe another time". Again, you did nothing to create mystery or show her that you have your own life and that you are just fine w/o her. As much as you annoy her she has you right where she wants you and she knows it.
