I am here to get support for my M. Not here, but everyone in my life and my H's life right now thinks we should not stay M. How am I supposed to think this will work out when everyone is against it. At what point is public opinion smarter than we are?
You said the magic words right there...public opinion! Its just that..an opinion. They are only hearing your H's words and not yours. Yeah, I have heard the saying about no major changes for a year.
You and your H need to do what you feel is best for YOU. Nobody knows the sich like you two.
Hypothetically...if I decided to R with my lunatic exh my family and friends would never speak to me again. I feel that pressure. I felt it when I got pregnant and tried to R with exh. They supported me but were really leery. They wanted the best, but they knew him. Now...they would disown me if I ever went back. The thing is YOU have to live with it...not anyone else.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
