Somehow for this one, I feel I need just a little anger...just enough to keep me on my toes...to not lay back and just leave this alone.
...let me just say that THIS...
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...last month's cell phone bill with 1000's of text messages
...One number stood out and there was regular contact...early morning...late nights...pretty much constant and times
...I found an email..."I love you" was all it said...from the new text buddy.
...I found, from another alt u friend, a couple of erotic stories written to her...stories that used her name and his as the main characters.
...She didn't miss me, but she had been in constant contact with her BF since she left...there were wake up calls early in the morning, and late night goodbyes...1, 2, 3AM.
is neither innocent nor appropriate.
The old saying goes, "Where there is smoke, there is fire." My personal experience of this marriage crisis hell, and the many, many stories you read on this site suggests that there is profound truth in that saying.
Every courtship begins with profusive contact. And don't even get me started on the whole notion of sending erotic stories where you and your new "friend" are the main characters.
I'm not trying to bring you down. Honestly.
This simply stinks to high heaven. That's all I'm saying.
But as always...AS ALWAYS...YOU are the one there in the trenches. Only YOU know this woman well enough to begin to make assessments of what is truth and what is a lie.
Take my words as a caution. And my offering to you that yes, indeed, some anger is justifiable and maybe even useful to keep you on track.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
