It has been 3 years since I have seen the Ex. Tomorrow is granson's birthday party and in the past I've always had to work or I just wasn't ready to go and see the Ex. Tomorrow I will be ready.... I'm strong and I am totally indifferent to him now. He will be bringing the girlfriend that he has been with since a month after he left. She will be the one that is uncomfortable around the family and friends not me. I've grown into being a strong, assertive , person that he does not bother me at all and neither does she. It's been a long hard road at times and I never knew that my life could be so fulfilling without him. I am so blessed in my life now. I've grown and changed so much that he may not even recognize the person I have become. that is what brings me joy and happiness now...my independence and confidence...that is what drives me now and thinking about all that happened I am amazed who I have become and what all I have now without him and how downright happy I really am... ITSY
M54 H54 married 30 years Prostitues and Other women "100's" 10/7/2004 Prostitue/Junkie girlfriend 6/04-1/07? Left 1/5/05 returned 1/9/05 Asked h to leave 4/2005 Had to, prostitues OW 5/2005 not a prostitue Divorced 9/2006