When you Get A Life, you realize that your spouse is a selfish person to have put you through what they did and you may never trust them again.
It is just a matter of the new mindset. When you begin to trust and love yourself again and they come back to you, keep it in your mind that they were not there for you when you needed them. Do you want to go back to a situation like that. While you were apart and single, you grew and made changes to better yourself but they used OM or OW to self medicate and live a life in denial.
What can they do to gain your trust. They threw you out and moved on to someone else.
