Hopeful: You make me laugh, and that feels good! As for the things they talk about I'm not quite sure, she only had one session, but when I spoke to my coach the next time my coach told me that they spoke about what attracted my W to me initially and my W had told the coach that it was ok to relay this info to me.
Also when I talked to my coach I asked her if the way my W explained the sitch and the way I explained it were the same, and she told me that yes in fact they were almost identical, I guess that's good at least.
Yes, very interesting how they can rationalize anything to suit their sitch, she uses the old "you're just desperate and will use any angle to make me stay" To which I say "no s---!" I'm desperate, I rationalize it this way: If I have brain cancer and I'm told that I only have 6 mos to live I'm going to try anything to get rid of it, new drugs, acupuncture,homeopathic remedies, anything literally, cause guess what? I don't want cancer. This is the same approach I take to my M I do not want it to be over, the thought of my kids saying goodnight to some other dude as if he's their Dad turns me inside out!
I have told my W when this is over whatever the outcome I am going in to get a tattoo, something to signify this point of time in my life, because no matter how unbearable the pain, I never want to forget...never.
_________________________ Me 42, Her 34 M 3yrs, T 8yrs D 5 S 3 S 2 ILYBINILWY 02/09 Sleeping in same bed/no intimacy "I,m done" her words: 05/28/09 She moves out end of Sept/09 till then "in limbo"
