Yeah. I have decided to go that route. (not talking unless it's about the kids). I was up last night late talking to a friend and he started calling and texting me. I never looked or checked the texts. Could just hear the beeping.

Well, get this. When I got off the phone a long time later, he had called me 30 times in a row and sent like 6 texts. One of the texts said: M, you need to put the bar on the back door and turn off (S) lights. And who are you talking to? Ummm, okay. So he is appearantly sitting outside my apartment at some point. That gave me the weirdest feeling ever. I immediately ran downstairs to check that everything was locked. He was right, the sliding door was locked, but the extra bar lock was not on it. Okay, this scared me.

Fast forward to this morning. He is texting me and I'm not responding. Probably sent 20 texts. One of them says this: Hey, one night I can come visit you in your bedroom if your window is not locked. lol All I have to do is climb up on the patio cover and let myself in. Okay, that majorly freaked me out. I broke down and sent back that he better not plan on sneaking in my window unless he wants to take a chance on getting pepper sprayed.

Okay, is anyone feeling unhealthy obsession here besides me? That thing last night gave me a horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach. My friend thinks I may need a restaining order.


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
Henry Ward Beecher

me 33, s 9, d 4