Hi Sodderly, thanks for the reply. I feel really great about how things are in my life other that with R. I have gotten into making things in stained glass and have sold a few pieces for good money. I have gotten a new job ( well almost new, will be there a year in Aug) that I really enjoy and am able to make good money that I haven't been able to do in years.Found a church that I enjoy but I have not gotten involved with there activities, but do like the services. The kids still live with me so there seems to always be something going on with them and there friends coming and going.Spend a lot of time with the youngest D. I have lost some weight without realizing that I was so that is good. Hoping to keep it going at a slow pace so it doesn't come back. Still love going to flea markets and auctions and a few yard sales.Have a few close girlfriends that I do things with. So I guess that I would say that my life is full.
The visits to home have almost stopped all together. He might come by once a month. Now he will come to the house to do something with our son and they leave, but to just come to visit, not often. So like I said,I am concerned, he just seems to be getting farther and farther away from us. I almost wish that he had been this distant in the beginning instead of the constant contact. At least I would feel more comfortable that he was moving along, but with the opposite happening, I don't know what to think so that is why I decided to post. Once again thanks any help would be appreciated.
