JKL: Question for you...

You mentioned that you don't pursue your W and it sounds as if you're doing a good job. Does this include not initiating any phone calls or E-mails to her?

For example, my W is sometimes looking for jobs outside the Company she works. I used to find some job leads and E-mail them to her. My concern is that if I don't help, the OM will... What about forwarding E-mails regarding friends, jokes, etc. I don't know where to draw the line here. She has basically stopped sending E-mails to me. Thoughts?

I thought others could learn from this as well. Thanks.


Me:41
W: 36
No Kids

EA&PA: JUL08-OCT08 & MAY09-fwd

W said we may not make it: JAN09
W said she doesn't want R: 5/8/09,6/5/09,7/19/09
Moved out: 7/31/09

Married: OCT03
Together: NOV00