I really hear you on the lonely weekend thing. I hate it too. I think that at you should stay distant a little longer before calling. How long has it been since you last had any contact?
Me 30 H 33 together:10 years married:5 years Separated: 1/23/09 living apart 5 mos and counting "when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR