B - checking a bit late. But I recognize the behavior, my H was the same -confused me too. My H and I are super attracted to each and love each other no matter what to both our surprise, however, I did enforce no sex once I realized the pattern. I too was afraid of his reaction, and fearful that he would seek another but I just stood my ground for my own self esteem. I know it is hard, but it is supposed to be a bonding mechanism so it either bonds you to a negative R or a positive one depending on your choice.
