Can anyone answer this? Part 8

[a new 2moro]

last message I left him was that I wanted him to imagine how he would have felt if his mom and dad were to never speak to each other. They are deceased now but I know, as anyone would, it would be very hurtful. I also told him to forget it, I would deal with it myself and that I didnt understand him and that I was disappointed in him.

uhhhmmm......sounds like you were guilt-ing him to me. you keep expecting him to be a responsible parent or friend or co-parent. dont have any such expectations. you keep setting your self up for hurt. havent you heard us all say NO expectations??