My heart goes out to your son. From what I remember your x used to see him much more frequent than he is now.
Your a good woman AH, and a wonderful mother. I know how scared you are for your son but I'm sure with you standing behind him every step of the way he will overcome this and your going to be so proud of him. We carry the world on our shoulders for our sons...trust me, the weight we carry for awhile is worth it.
As far as the "blushing"....who knows, I'm sure this isn't the first time you've encountered them together is it?
Hell, they both should have been blushing and thats just me putting it nicely.
Eventually the guilt may eat them up and their perfectly legal marrige may perfectly crumble but your life is going to keep moving upward....so try not to dwell on why he's doing anything....I'm sure the lies would spin you around back to ground zero.
My xh's perfectly legal (yet hidden for over a year) new wife should be moving into our home in a few months. Yup. The happy couple lost her home, almost lost our home and now they have nowhere to live and will be set out in the street by the end of July, so now he has no choice but to buy me out at a rather (cough couch) hefty price. He thinks I will be vacating quickly so he has a place to land...uhm, no, I will follow my time limit and leave by September or October. He can go live with his mother I spose eh?
And it's good.
I have had LOTS of thoughts about shrimp and curtain rods but nah....I don't think I could do that as there won't be a curtain, blind, lightbulb, toilet paper, washer/dryer, refridgerator or other such fun things left in here.....but the walls I spent back breaking hours painting and customizing....now they might have bright purple and yellow polka dots painted all over them cos I love to paint!!
You take good care of your son my sistah and he will grow up to be the man you never had, he will be the man the makes you the proudest mother ever.
Big (((hugs))) to you and your son
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
cos I love to paint!!