Ali, I have no advice beyond what you're already getting, but I'm glad to see that things continue to perk along; just wanted to stop in and say hello! Maybe you can catch up on my thread when you have a chance; I'm feeling lonely!
Peace, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
just wanted to stop in and say hello! Maybe you can catch up on my thread when you have a chance; I'm feeling lonely! 
