Renee, listen to me on this one..... Don't EVER speak to him again! If he wants to SPEAK TO YOU, its your choice to speak back, but if someone was dead, I would be damned if I would tell him.
LOL love your messages sometimes BH. You are sooo blunt! Are you on alt. univ or ms? I would love to chat sometime. I love your honesty. AND we kinda live close. Dont worry, I will not be trying to contact him soon. BH, it really hurt me when son chose to jump at the invitation from him. I am not going to compete with xh over son. XH was being smart (well so he thought)when we seperated. He told son he had to live with me. It hurt my son, because we would have went with his dad if asked to. XH knew he couldnt have his gf and such if son was living with him. Now, he gets to talk to our son everyday ON PHONE. Take him out on special occasions, and bring him back. I have to deal with everything else. I have to lay down the rules (because son still is living with me) and I have to be the BAD parent. I have to loan out the money when son needs it, he wont ask his dad, he says it not his dads responbility to take care of us anymore. (kinda interesting he says this). Son is now looking at xh as a friend instead of parent. I am "the mean mom". It's like when you babysit someones child, you play with it and spoil it, then send it home to be disiplined. Regardlesss I love my son with all my heart and I am glad he is here with me. I need him as much as he needs me.
