Welcome back!!! A whack with a 2x4.....but a foam one. You'd be over it if it didn't affect your son so much.
Don't waste your time wondering about why...it takes you back to a stuck place. HIS loss.....and it can be YOUR wonderful new life. Living well is the best revenge. Go for it!
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001