Traveldane, I can relate to what you're going through with your husband. I admire your strength in getting through your miscarriage. I can't even imagine how hard that must have been.
I think your husband is depressed and he's using OW to mask his sadness. Just know that you are not alone with your frustration and hurt. I'm going to continue going dark with my WAH. I'm GAL and projecting happiness,(even if I have to fake it) whenever he does come around.
Do you need to make a decision about moving soon and does H know about your desire to move? If you don't have to decide right away, I would hold off on that for awhile.
Remember that you are not responsible for his depression or his behavior. Stay strong and be kind to yourself.
Me 40 WAH 43 T 4 years M 9 1/2 months stepson 9 separated 3 1/2 weeks 1 dog 1 cat
