Hey ((Julia)), In some ways it was hard simply because if we only would have TALKED about these issues, we may have worked them out. But really, I think his guilt over his debts, pushed it this way. One could say it was the noble thing for him to do. I certainly didn't want to add to any of the guilt, it has pararlysed him enough.

I emailed him today saying that I hoped he would still choose to go to pirate fest with me (no R no M no D talk) - just pure fun. He replied back saying he was planning on it & would keep me informed. smile

His friend/landlord/co-worker got laid off today at work. Told him I was sorry to hear that. So no rent reduction possibility for my XH.

My sister & I helped set up for the festival. Long day, hard work. They sure need to be more organized.

And yes, it will definately be interesting to see where this all goes. A strange path, I have chosen to go on indeed. And yet, I think it was my only path left, well unless I just wanted to say sod it & hate him instead.

Again Julia, thanks for stopping by. Hope you have a good weekend smile


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)