JKL, sounds like things are moving along. I've been reading / learning a lot from your posts.
My W did tell me a couple of times that it's a little too late to be working on our R. Actually today she said "I'm sorry that you're getting on the boat now that I was on for the last three years. I'm done trying. I'm off the boat." My response wasn't a good one, so I need to work on my DBing...
Me:41 W: 36 No Kids
EA&PA: JUL08-OCT08 & MAY09-fwd
W said we may not make it: JAN09 W said she doesn't want R: 5/8/09,6/5/09,7/19/09 Moved out: 7/31/09