Newcomer requesting advice

[traveldane]

initally the move was for me, what I thought was best, to be in new environment, be close to family and a couple of close friends.

now that it is happening, I am second guessing, as I am leaving behind more close friends who have been good support so far. And, I was finding it difficult there. Every place I went had a memory of us and it was a bit awkward on the mutual friend front.

as far as the job, it would pretty much be a lateral move until I figure out what I would like to do more.

thanks for the advice on love language book...i had actually been meaning to read that for a while.

so you think period contact is ok...or none at all, no pursuing? RIght now I am R&Ring a bit with family, but planning to return back to home city next weekend. Will need to make final decision and follow through with move plans or not. Am wondering if I should try to see H then or not.

As you can see, have major difficulty with decision making here..