oh, and I don't believe he is taking any antidepressant. Many people have been concerned about him and have asked this, but I believe the person he sees fort IC is a LCSW so can not prescribed medication. I doubt he would initiate that if it was not suggested to him and I am not the right person to suggest it at this time (I tried once and it did not go well).
Also, I am not much of a fan of his IC based on some things he has told me she says (back before we got separated) but he feels comfortable with her so that is the most important thing.
Any thoughts on going completely dark vs initiating friendly communication (post cards, etc, now and then) ?
Me 30 H 33 together:10 years married:5 years Separated: 1/23/09 living apart 5 mos and counting "when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR
