thanks for getting back to me. I believe he is in contact with OW. He maintains that there is no PA, only EA, but I doubt that.
He is continuing with counseling and I am glad. But does not seem to want to communicate with me at all.
At this point I am second guessing my decision to move closer to home or not. I was finding it hard to stay in same city as we have same mutal friends and it was feeling tricky. Also, I figured, he would know where to find me. If he wanted to give the marriage a go it would be good for him to move to where I was now...away from OW.
But also wondering if moving away is giving up.
Thanks for your support.
Me 30 H 33 together:10 years married:5 years Separated: 1/23/09 living apart 5 mos and counting "when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR
