Is he still in contact with OW? You two are very young to have gone through so much hardship and I'm sorry about your lost pregnancy. That alone is enough to test even the strongest of M.
Your H hasn't had any positive role models in terms of M and what it takes to stick together. You, however, have learned from your parents and doing what it takes.
I was also wondering if he was taking any medication. It doesn't seem like IC is helping him. Is he really going?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.