That's it exactly Tim. I was not completely sure how clearly you had shared your true feelings with her, nor for how long you had been doing so.
I think it's safe to say that you have reached a point where there is nothing to be feared from speaking your heart.
Even more significantly, I think that there comes a point in just about every relationship, regardless of the nature of the crisis, where speaking the truth in love is the best course of action (directing this comment more to the general audience). The problem of course is knowing when you've reached that point. It's far too easy to fall in to the over the top professions of love and dedication, and promises to change.
We all know how effective that stuff is when the hurts are still fresh.
How are you doing?
Thinking alot about you and the things that have transpired. I try to tell myself that your wife is a little lost, confused, and maybe even naive, but in the end it always comes back to conscious decisions that are made.
Just know this. If she is creeping towards moving on, she is a fool. You've become a fine man, a kind and loving husband and father, and I'm sure a great friend.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
