Oh yes she knows about me. She is old girlfriend from when we were first dating. As far as knowing about us still being married, I am not sure. He has never mentioned if she knows or not. Yes you are right, he seems to just be stuck where he is. I fell like he doesn't want a divorce so he does not have to deal with OW wanting to get married but for some reason I don't really feel that she wants that either. Sort of the feeling that she is just using him to pay the rent and other bills as according to him, he pays it all as when we were together, we shared the bills. There are a lot of times lately when he calls from his place and she is not around. Alot. Times when she should be there. They are worse as far as contact as he was always over or calling many times a day until as I said about 7 or 8 months ago when things started changing for what ever reason. I use to call him on and off, but now I just wait for him to call most of the time. For a while there when I would call, he would seem to be put out that I was calling so that is why I quit. I haven't tried calling again only when I really need to talk to him about something. He does offer to help me on different things and sometimes he goes thru with the help and then other times he doesn't show up or call back. I'll come by later and read up on your stitch.
