does the ow know about u? does she know he is still married?

u can check out my thread under infidelity, i post most often there, but my h is definitely in a quarter life crisis.

im just trying to figure out the details of your situation to see if i can offer advice.

its interesting that he hasnt wanted to move forward on either ends, with u or her.

would u say things are better now or getting worse, in terms of your contact with him?


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09