Hi mdoodles, No, we never had a legal seperation as there is nothing financial to worry about as we own nothing other than my older tk. OW bought him a new truck when they had first gotten together along with a 4 wheeler and a motorcycle which he has managed to loose for non payment and ruined her credit other that the truck which he still has. Oh dear, SO Sad At frist he did give me money but after a while he quit doing that. I am doing better that he is in that department. First time I have been able to have a savings account in many many years. Yes, he still has many things here that he never took. Once in a while I would ask him if he didn't want to take this or that and he would say maybe later but never did. We did until I would guess the last 7 or 8 months when he started getting more and more distant. I do know that most nights, or I should say according to him, he sleeps on the couch. He did that for a long time before he finally moved out. Nope, he has never come home. He would come late in the evening and after we were intimate, stay in bed for an hour or two than all of a sudden spring up and need to leave right away. Use to come and take naps all the time and then leave. Might need to add that I have moved a couple of times since he left and the place we were living in when he moved out we were just renting. Our home had been sold because the payments had gotten to be too much for me to try and make as he had started not wanting to go to work back them so not bring in much money.
