thanks snodderly, i value your opinion.

i have kept conversation totally about the store and life in general, not about our r, not about ow, not about the fact that he left, not about his mentioning we are done.

its as if those things didnt occur.

i have been peppy and cheery.

and i totally flirt back and assert myself, because i know its something he likes, he likes that attention.

at the same time, i know i cant keep waiting for him, that things need to change now, because are selling our house and i do not know where i am going or if he is coming with me.

i think i have a few more weeks to wait things out and see what transpires.

i know he is very unhappy with the business we bought, he told me so a few minutes ago - he said he is very unhappy.

well that is clear!


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09