Well I think you've spent the last couple of years doing the exact same thing and not yielding any results. So my gut is telling me that rather than asking to talk to him, you should just call him and say "this is what's going to happen".
Then you can move on with your life. It may shock him, but I think you allowing him to do what he wants is what's feeding his indecision. After all, why should he worry about his M when he knows you'll always be there.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
