Women testing men, view this as one of those tests, possibly subconscious on her part, testing you, seeing how much she can push you and bend you to her will.
Yep, she baited you with the all bs about how you were doing it all wrong. You took the bait got upset (nomomojo .) Then the test: Why are you upset? You have to understand how and why you are going to respond to pass the test and be her man. BE + DO = HAVE
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
.) Then the test: Why are you upset? 
