""Weds nite was the last time she called. I was supportive, friendly and caring during her call (she was complaining about how the kids were behaving at her place). I did suggest it may be related to the situation, but she didn't agree at all (big surprise).""
Well you gave her her fix .... she reads right through that stuff this is persuing this makes her happy you still want to fix things..... and of course she did not agree, if she agreed it would have taken some of your hurt away, she does not want to do that she wants you to hurt... it makes her feel loved ...
""That was the last time I heard from her. Now many will say not hearing from a WAW in 1.5 days is not a big deal, but it's significant to me since we've had contact almost every day since she moved out.""
And you dont care if she ever calls again right? that is where you need to be. expect that she will never call you again and be right with it.