Hi Sugar and Spice - First of all, let me say that I am so sorry to hear all that you have been going through. I am going to try to read the earlier parts of your thread and see if I have anything helpful to say, but in the meantime, I was hoping you could give me some input, since unfortunately our situations are somewhat similar. Would you mind taking a look at my (short, so far) thread - I would truly appreciate any advice you could offer.
Blindsided - Any advice or thoughts from you would be appreciated, too!