Yes, down the road there are all sorts of issues that will have to be dealt with -- again, assuming that I end up staying with H. In my heart, I'd like to make our M work, but I need to figure out how to get through the next few months, until the baby is born, and then with visitation issues when it is just an infant. I also need to figure out what else to ask for -- H says he's committed, but why should I believe that. I thought he was committed before. He has asked me what he needs to do to demonstrate that he loves me, he's sorry and that the A was a huge mistake. I honestly don't know what would convince me and I don't know what "rules" to lay down that are fair both to my family and the innocent baby once it's born.
I know I saw at least one post-er, Sugar and Spice, whose H's OW has had a baby - I was hoping to get some wisdon from her or any others who have been dealing with this situation.
Any further thoughts/help appreciated. Thanks, Exhausted
