During your mood swings, would you take it out on your H or just keep it inside? Prior to all this, my W would cry at the drop of a hat, but since then hasn't shed a tear for anything and I'm not talking about our sitch.
I don't know if she's hardened herself to all emotion. It's like living with Spock without the logic.
I was just really not much fun to live with- but then again he wasn't really at home (hobbies) and when he was he didn't notice.