Smiley, I dont post to you often, mostly because I feel I miss half of the things said on your thread due to the language barrier, but I try to follow.
I once told you I think you need to calm down or something in these -simple- words. Today I read something someone mentioned and I wondered if you consider yourself antagonistic (competetive?). Do you always have to say the last word? Make the last smart (@ss ) comment, say a joke? Is this your way to deal with things? Do you engage in "verbal swordfight" (I think that's how OD/Lisa described once what I am trying to describe)because you simply enjoy iy without meaning any harm?
Dont get me wrong, I enjoy your posts and your attitude. BUT, I cant imagine living with a man 24/7 that sounds/seems always so hyper and ready to REact on things... I think I would get "burned out" at some point. Maybe it is just me being used to a VERY passive man, I was just wondering, maybe you are nothing like that, but I have to say, all this "energy" to me, sometimes seems a bit....aggressive and chaotic? K
BTW, there is nothing you can do to "please" her when communicating to her if she has decied she will get upset with you. Just try to be thoughfull and think of what brings you closer to your goal. By the way, what IS your goal lately? I may have missed it...