Need to really make changes for me (thread #3)

[mdoodles]

i can so sympathize with u. we did not choose these situations we are in. if someone told us 10 years ago that this is what would happen, im sure i can say for u that u would not say, ok great! lets do it! lol.

but we are in it and i think that we stick it out because we say, we came this far, maybe something will change tomorrow, right? that is my thinking.

i am exactly like u, i would be great at keeping to myself, then one day, i let it and end up apologizing.

i have zero advice to offer, wish i could help.

even if i said put a time frame on it in your head, i bet the time would come and go.

maybe focus on putting together the separation agreement? i mean, legally separated, u are still married, but u can look at is a way to move on and if he wants to come back, he still can.

wish i could help more.