Re: Your wife's response to your emails and phone calls. It's great that you are trying to work with her. Her emotions are coming to the forefront so that everything is unsettling.
Keep it to email if that works for her. Say you'll put it in bullet form. Keep it simple. Validate that you know its difficult.
It's not you.. it's her. You're just the one she gets to blame. Stay calm, know your goals and keep moving forward.
