Just wanted to drop by and well, ya' know - say I hope things are going really well...
I can appreciate the weirdness! But blokes are weird creatures! They simply don't operate in the same way as women - the answers you crave will come...but I think - when he gets more comfortable and secure - that's when they'll come...and then, at that point - there'll only be a small window of opportunity... cos blokes - if I understand the species correctly(being one!) will want to spew it (and I'm typing this with some knowledge of said species!!!) and then move on to the future and onwards to the best bits without looking back!!!
Ali - what I'm saying is - if you're looking for a full blown, heart-felt apology and explanation - that might well be something your BF is going to find pretty difficult! Its not him! Its his genes so to speak! He will want to tell you but he can't! Not that he doesn't want to - he simply doesn't have the words and language to do it! In you BF's world things have moved on - and for the better back with you...
And, he will want to protect you from the stuff that has happened...yet you will want to know...Ali - if you can, consign certain things to the past and then look to the future...
Ali - don't let this gender difference upset your progress... you don't want a "metro-sexual" male anyway!
