While we were separated, I asked her how many times she actually felt "in the mood" over the course of the year. She told me twice. I asked what she did about it (masturbate, etc.) She said she'd think about it, but then she'd get tired and go to sleep.
That's why I think she's going through depression. And of course, she believes I am the source of it.
My wife and I talked about this too. She said that to her, sex was more of an intimate connection vs. a physical release. So she said that since she didn't/hadn't felt emotionally connected to me, it didn't feel "right" to her. The couple of times we were intimate (about 6 weeks after the bomb), she said that she felt weird afterwards and felt that I took advantage of her (even though she was the one who initiated both times)
Very sad and it really hurt when she said it.... she moved into the other bedroom shortly afterwards.....
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
