"- a part that I had touched on briefly but actually has alot of bearing on this, her sex drive, sexual satisfaction in general. Did you sex life with your wife slow down to crawl to where you were lucky to have sex once a month (if that)."
From my POV, our sex life was good before the kids came. After that, I don't know if her perspective of sex changed, but she wouldn't "tell" me she enjoyed it. I could see she did, hear she did, however, sometimes when I asked it she liked it just to check, she would say, "I don't want to".
While we were separated, I asked her how many times she actually felt "in the mood" over the course of the year. She told me twice. I asked what she did about it (masturbate, etc.) She said she'd think about it, but then she'd get tired and go to sleep.
That's why I think she's going through depression. And of course, she believes I am the source of it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
