I mean, so many people say "if you're happy, the kids will be happy." It is BS, even statistics have shown it. How does it feel to have your world crumble and have everyone just gloss over it and skip off? I take a different approach, this is hard and it hurts and we'll get through it.
Yes, I absolutely concur from the core of my being. The school 'counselor' told me the kids would be fine with W sleeping in the same bed with OM amd the kids in the same hotel room as long was mom was 'happy' and it was really none of my business. What a big lie! This is sadly 'pop psychology' and 'accepted culture'.
