Fire's burning out...just smoldering

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Kitty - he is. We went to pre-marital counselling because he was spending a large amount of time watching porn on the internet AND at home. Now, I am no prude. I don't mind porn once in a while. It can be a turn on when you aren't so turned on..if you know what I mean. But, he was doing it everyday. I told him it bothered me and all he did was hide it. So, we went to counselling to deal with it. She said that she thought he was a sex addict. So, Yes. He is a sex addict or a 30 year old male with a ton of testosterone. I didn't want to be judgemental or over analyze the sitch. So, I guess it was just one of those red flags that I overlooked.