We're all about the 50/50 basically, except where the kids are concerned (60/40 in my favor, owing to differences in work schedules) and WAW's separate property (which I have no beef about -- she inherited it from deceased grands and parents and shares it with her sister). WAW's pretty cheesed-off about spousal support -- big philosophical debate that is, "of course," completely NOT about the fact that she has to pay it
Not too bad actually looks like you knew ahead of time what to expect from the 'petitioner'. I had to step on the gas ($$$ per gallon) to get from 14 to 60 in just about 2 years. Stick to your guns on the spousal support.