Thanks for stopping by. Yes my W does see the OM on a regular basis since she works with him, although I don't think they are doing anything together any more.
I wish she'd be willing to go to Retrouville, but she's set on staying "separated" and that she doesn't want to be married any more, etc. Even though we sleep in the same bed and she hasn't budged on moving forward with a D.
So right now, I think she's confused as to what to do. Is that how you felt after your A?
I know you said you turned to these forums for help which was great. My W however, is the type to accept things just the way they are. If she doesn't feel it, she doesn't feel it, end of story.
She also doesn't have any friends that she hangs out with, just her mom and her sister who have gone with the "just do what makes you feel happy" mentality. So it's not like I can depend on them to say anything. In fact, my MIL doesn't like me very much, because (get this) I have a video game system at home. Which I don't play, my kids do, but she thinks its a sign of my immaturity. Yeah and her D messing around with someone older than her isn't immature. Sheesh.
Any way, that's why I was looking for opinions of those who have had an A. Right now she's always depressed looking and sad. I try staying as upbeat as possible around her, but she's gets to be such a downer that it gets to me sometimes and this is just when we're eating dinner together.
Were these mood swings normal for you and Kittyfish?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
