I'm still trying to figure out how to become interesting to W. So far she has gone boating, biking, going with a friend to learn how to shoot today. She is doing all these different things. I'm not sure how to compete with some of that.
Holy sh*t!!! Did I just read that. Kevin (and this is coming from a so-so DBer)...STOP posting now and read every other thread you can for the next 24 hours at least. No, no, no, the time has long past for you to be "trying to figure out how to become interesting to W." And you aren't in competition with her!!! It is over, you don't know what she is feeling and you can only WIN in your own little world and in your own mind and on your own terms.
"Interesting"...I had an acting teacher who said "if you want to be interesting, then get interested." Get it? You have to actually have a life that interests you to be interesting to anyone else.
I'm starting to believe more in God having read your posts...I mean how could it be exhibited any more clearly how the LBS screws him or herself?
Kevin, I thank you because you make this all seem so obvious. But, I feel really sorry for you. Do you want that? Women to feel sorry for you?
Get interested in YOUR life and beyond your kids too. What interests you???
I have earned the right by default (not by excellent DBing mind you) to deliver a 2x4, simply because I have subjected myself to the content of your threads.