Baggy, your rant about romantic comedies is true, but I think you've missed the point of "why" women love them....
DQ makes a valid point here, V, in pointing out that women love what I call The Chase. Men often think that once they've married the girl, she's caught. Job done. Free sex for life! Erm....no. Women never tire of the chase, and will watch it on the screen, read about it in romance novels, fantasize about it, and want to actively engage in it over and over and over again. The Chase is a big part of what gets them turned on and desirous of you in the first place: your active, demonsrated desire for her drives her desire for you. So pursue her, romance her, seduce her, conquer her....over and over again, for the rest of your lives together. Every time you 'catch' her, let her go and begin the pursuit again. It's the a way in which adults can "play" and believe me, home-base in the game of chase as a kid was *never* so Yummy!
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
