Oh and I do have a question. In my sitch, I was plenty adventurous and kept my W engaged in doing different and exciting things. However she would just say no or not interested. When I asked what she wanted to do she'd say "don't know". or "up to you".
So I don't know what you mean about the "boring" part. It was her choice to not participate and it wasn't from lack of me trying to find out what she wanted to do.
Suggestions on what I did wrong in the past? Just curious from your POV.
You know your wife better than we do. When you say you did things that were exciting & adventurous, was that from your point of view only? Was she bored or uninterested because she didn't get to offer input? I know you say you asked her what she wanted to do but was this always the case especially in the beginning?
Or I'll twist this around even more, did you always ask for input from her originally in the beginning and never took the lead & initiative in this process and possibly that's why she doesn't care of seem invested?
