Oh and I do have a question. In my sitch, I was plenty adventurous and kept my W engaged in doing different and exciting things. However she would just say no or not interested. When I asked what she wanted to do she'd say "don't know". or "up to you".
So I don't know what you mean about the "boring" part. It was her choice to not participate and it wasn't from lack of me trying to find out what she wanted to do.
Suggestions on what I did wrong in the past? Just curious from your POV.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.