I don't think your opinion has ever beeen discounted at all..
As you and I both know by looking at the world around us that "christian beliefs" "witnessing" etc. are sometimes frowned upon...as a matter of fact i think it's much harder for a Christian to walk this world than any other person..it's a hard life to lead...simply because we are human, not perfect, nor without sin.
Like I said only you and God know what you are supposed to do. If he speaks to you and points you in the direction you are taking then good for you. As far as i know..if he spoke to me and told me to get out..I missed it..if he told me to stay..I missed it...either way..I feel good and at peace with the path I took.
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I once believed the maxim "once a cheater, always a cheater".
I also meant to put in here..that OP would have been a deal breaker for me...and it would be, still is...and clearly it was not for you from the beginning and maybe that is what true chritianity is all about..the ability to forgive the breaking of that covenant vow by a spouse..
Mike--
I do not know what "true Christianity" is about, other than the unconditional love Christ has called for us to show to one another--just as he did by choosing to die sinless on the cross to redeem us for our sins.
I always thought an Op would be a deal breaker for me--until she became a reality. Then, my only concern was how to fix what was broken and to restore my marriage. In the process I have fixed myself. I am prepared to live life alone, but would much rather live it with my DH.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
